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How to Raise Strong Women

How to raise strong women.  Women of strength are all around us…..today we're talking about raising the next generation of strong females!

Thank you to Zenni Optical for helping us to share our thoughts on this topic.Wondering how to raise strong women? These simple tips are KEY!whatweworeMom: / glasses c/o Zenni Optical / shorts / tee / sandals c/o Swedish Hasbeens /

Lydia: / glasses c/o Zenni Optical / shorts / sandals / hair bow c/o Little Poppy Co /

Pictures by Mily Cooper Photography
Wondering how to raise strong women? These simple tips are KEY!“I want her to be a strong woman.”  That was my first thought when we found out we were having a baby girl.  Isn't it every mother's?  Our society has come a long way, but it's still tough to be a woman sometimes.  We are gently pushed into certain career paths, we hit glass ceilings, we are expected to have certain personality traits and are judged for having others.
how to raise strong women1The older Lydia gets, the more I've been thinking about how I can encourage her to be a strong woman.Wondering how to raise strong women? These simple tips are KEY!Encouraging Her to Speak Her Mind: Women are often taught to be accepting or cooperative.  Teamwork and cooperation is important, but so is being able to speak up for what you want or need.  How do you do this with a toddler? We're starting simple.  Encouraging Lydia to ask for what she wants, honoring her when she does, and modeling that same behavior as adults.how to raise strong women11Standing Up For Those Less Fortunate: Strong women who have made a mark in the history books? They stood up for those who couldn't stand up for themselves.  Whether fighting for freedom from slavery, the right to vote, or the right to work……throughout history our strongest female role models have fought for the rights of many.  As a teacher in an inner-city school, I hope to model this behavior for my own daughter on a daily basis.  But, how do we ask HER to do that? With the people she knows.  If a friend is sad, we ask her to help.  If someone needs something (as simple as a snack or a toy) we encourage her to speak up.  It makes me so proud to see her starting to do this on her own!how to raise strong women2Removing Negative Descriptors for Strong Behavior: Bossy? Aggressive? The B-word? Funny how you rarely hear men being described this way, right?  In our household, we are trying our best to remove these words from our vocabulary when describing behavior.  Instead we are using words like strong or phrases like “thank you for trying to help, but it is ____________'s turn right now.”Wondering how to raise strong women? These simple tips are KEY!One of my favorite things about raising a daughter? I get to see female leaders everywhere and share them with her.  Our partner Zenni Optical? They love female leaders too!  They're working to celebrate the positive impact these leaders have on our communities, and to ensure that they can be seen physically through the gift of stylish and affordable eyewear.

Zenni Optical makes beautiful, affordable glasses AND sunglasses like the ones Lydia and I are wearing in these pictures (side note, she wears these sunglasses EVERYDAY and refuses to take them off even after dark).  Their curated collections allow all family members to purchase affordable prescription or non-prescription glasses with ease. 

Wondering how to raise strong women? These simple tips are KEY!To celebrate Zenni's vision of strong women and raising the next generation of them……we are teaming up with them today to give one of YOU a pair of glasses.  Yup, even prescription ones! 
how to raise strong women9 Wondering how to raise strong women? These simple tips are KEY! Wondering how to raise strong women? These simple tips are KEY! how to raise strong women4 Wondering how to raise strong women? These simple tips are KEY!So mamas, what are you doing to raise the next generation of strong women?

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  1. Emmy says

    June 15, 2016 at 11:27 am

    Great post! I think a lot of it comes down to helping them understand who they truly are and the purpose of this life, if they truly understand that and their worth then it makes the rest of the path a lot easier.

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  2. Kendra says

    June 15, 2016 at 11:34 am

    Lydia is going to be such an awesome woman!

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  3. Phyrra says

    June 15, 2016 at 11:49 am

    Great post! While I don’t have children, if I did, one thing I would do is teach them to lift weights because I think it gives a feeling of self confidence, plus teaches them to live a healthy lifestyle.

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  4. Jamie says

    June 15, 2016 at 12:43 pm

    My advice would be to teach your children to try and do things on their own before asking for help.

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  5. Kate | My Mommy Brain says

    June 15, 2016 at 1:07 pm

    Don’t let anyone tell you you can’t do something just because you are a woman. And if they do, prove them wrong!

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  6. lynzy says

    June 15, 2016 at 2:47 pm

    My advice is to always give them enough space to grow confidently

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  7. Jamie| Makeup Life and Love says

    June 15, 2016 at 2:54 pm

    I absolutely LOVE this post! Great advice and loveeeee it all!

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  8. shannon fowler says

    June 15, 2016 at 8:24 pm

    my advice is to never focus on being a certain weight but instead focus on nutrition and health. also focus on their strengths and point them out

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  9. Sandy a la Mode says

    June 15, 2016 at 10:12 pm

    ummmmmmm you girls are SO cute!!!!

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  10. Jeanne Coulombe says

    June 16, 2016 at 2:55 am

    Teach them to be independent, we taught our daughter that she can do anything she puts her mind to and never let anyone tell her elsewise. She graduated with high honors then went on to collage and graduated top of her class. She now has a great job and she loves it!

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  11. sandra says

    June 16, 2016 at 5:10 am

    raise their self confidence

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  12. Julie says

    June 16, 2016 at 5:15 am

    My advice is to let kids have responsibilities and let them do things even if it is hard and this will help them build up their confidence if they take on challenges and persevere. We as parents need to let our kids take on things that might not be comfortable.

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  13. Becca Z says

    June 16, 2016 at 8:22 am

    what worked for me was being encouraged to read (and restricted on tv), I read tons of books about lots of strong woman from a very young age

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  14. Andrea Darst says

    June 16, 2016 at 11:52 am

    I love this post! My mom always taught me that being strong also means it’s ok to be vulnerable sometimes, and to be compassionate.

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  15. Laura says

    June 16, 2016 at 2:16 pm

    I would say to always be supportive and let them know that they can be anything that they want to as long as they work hard enough.

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  16. Michelle says

    June 16, 2016 at 11:19 pm

    I think confidence and self esteem is important in being a strong woman.

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  17. Holly says

    June 17, 2016 at 2:40 am

    To never let anyone tell you that your opinions don’t matter.

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  18. Rebecca says

    June 17, 2016 at 8:04 am

    I think every opportunity you get to build up their confidence, do it! Makes for a strong confident person!

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  19. Casi Selph says

    June 17, 2016 at 9:41 am

    Always support them, and push them to step outside their comfort zone!! I think it’s also important for them to know that nothing in this world is free and we must always put our best foot forward and work hard no matter what!! And to always dream BIG!!

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  20. Andi says

    June 17, 2016 at 9:50 am

    Teach them how to be independent from a young age. I think encouraging solo travel is awesome at the right age!

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  21. Connie says

    June 17, 2016 at 10:00 am

    Teach your daughters to do it all. Never rely on anyone else!! Both of my daughters can change the oil in the cars, fix a flat tire and fix a leaky toilet.

    Be independent!! You can do anything you want!

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  22. Lisa Williams says

    June 17, 2016 at 10:07 am

    Make sure you tell her smart and capable she is and that she can be whatever she wants and that she has a right to find her happiness.

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  23. Lauryn R says

    June 17, 2016 at 10:24 am

    My best advice on how to raise a strong woman is to set an example of this by being strong and confident yourself! Allowing them to learn from their mistakes is important as well.

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  24. Margot Core says

    June 17, 2016 at 10:32 am

    Don’t just compliment them all the time on how they look!

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  25. Hope says

    June 17, 2016 at 11:03 am

    Teach her to always be herself.

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  26. Kim Pincombe Cole says

    June 17, 2016 at 11:09 am

    My advice is to be honest & share our own insecurities. We grow stronger from acknowledging our weaknesses & learning from them!

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  27. Heather Hollands says

    June 17, 2016 at 11:45 am

    Raise strong women by giving them opportunities to use their voice.

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  28. Sarah L says

    June 17, 2016 at 4:48 pm

    Be a role model and introduce her to other strong women.
    Thanks for the contest.

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  29. Dagmar says

    June 17, 2016 at 5:11 pm

    Show them how to be confident in themselves!

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  30. Paol says

    June 17, 2016 at 5:21 pm

    Besides teaching your daughters to embrace their uniqueness but you have to show them through verbal and physical communication (i.e body language, verbal tone/pitch, and so on).

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  31. amy pugmire says

    June 17, 2016 at 6:36 pm

    To stay true to yourself and confident with who you are! Your kids will follow your example!

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  32. kesha says

    June 17, 2016 at 6:40 pm

    Be yourself and genuine!

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  33. lovely joy merced says

    June 17, 2016 at 6:46 pm

    my advice is give time to your kids and show how important they are, in that way they’ll feel loved and spread love to everyone, the love and time that we can give to them will make them stronger!

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  34. Michelle C says

    June 18, 2016 at 5:06 am

    I have three kids, two are girls. I’ve always stressed to all of my kids that they can do whatever they want. I don’t enforce gender stereotypes by having my girls wear girl colors and having my son only play with boy toys. I work in a male dominated field, so I feel like I am setting an example.

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  35. Anne says

    June 18, 2016 at 9:09 am

    A strong woman knows how to make a “failure” a motivator to get where she needs to be. She never lets anything control her destiny.

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  36. Penni says

    June 18, 2016 at 11:17 am

    Be the strongest role model you can be, every day, and offer lots of support and positive reinforcement for similarly strong behavior in the girls you want to inspire!

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  37. Marilyn Legault says

    June 18, 2016 at 11:35 am

    It never hurts to build up their confidence and esteem while they are young.

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  38. Laurent Legault says

    June 18, 2016 at 11:41 am

    Let them make their mistakes while young and don’t criticize them. They need building up not knocking down.

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  39. Katherine Oliveira says

    June 18, 2016 at 3:47 pm

    Teach them to be independent , and give encouragement!

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  40. Debbie Clauer says

    June 18, 2016 at 6:04 pm

    Let them be themselves, lots of encouragement and minimal criticism.

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  41. Jenesse says

    June 19, 2016 at 5:31 pm

    Thank you for this! So many great things about it. I think the best advice is to surround yourself with people who support you and to always fight for yourself and others.

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  42. Ashley says

    June 19, 2016 at 8:03 pm

    Women need to have respect for others- always using their manners and listening to their elders!

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  43. Ellen Casper says

    June 20, 2016 at 11:57 am

    Never Let Anyone Take Advantage of You

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  44. Kathy Clark says

    June 20, 2016 at 3:46 pm

    Help them to believe in their abilities and beauty by complimenting and encouraging them every day!

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  45. SHIRLEY SYMON says

    June 21, 2016 at 12:54 pm

    My one piece of advice is to always be yourself both personally and professionally. Lead by example. Do the best you can in everything you do because you want not to be rewarded.

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  46. Brandon Sparks says

    June 21, 2016 at 3:28 pm

    Never back down and always keep your word

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  47. Steve says

    June 21, 2016 at 4:02 pm

    My best piece of advice is support them and don’t hold them back from anything.

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  48. Joel says

    June 21, 2016 at 4:27 pm

    My advice is to teach them they can be whatever they want to be.

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  49. Michelle H says

    June 22, 2016 at 10:55 am

    I refuse to let anyone force my daughter to do anything she doesn’t want to do, even if it’s Daddy tickling her or asking for a hug and kiss.

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  50. Karren says

    June 24, 2016 at 12:11 pm

    ALways be true to yourself and always speak what you feel, no one can argue with your feelings!!

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  51. Lisa @ Fun Money Mom says

    June 25, 2016 at 7:58 am

    First of all, your daughter is absolutely adorable!!! I have two daughters of my own and this is such a great post! These are all important lessons that we should be teaching our girls and it’s always nice to get a reminder like this. Thanks so much for sharing with us at Share The Wealth Sunday!

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  52. Mistie says

    June 27, 2016 at 5:54 pm

    Awesome post! You ladies are beautiful also! Thanks for sharing.

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  53. Pamela Li (Rookie Parenting) says

    August 12, 2016 at 10:45 pm

    What a great list! “Encourage her to speak her mind” is my #1, too. 🙂

    Reply
  54. Salomon says

    February 14, 2017 at 3:08 am

    My one piece of advice is to always be yourself both personally and professionally.

    Reply
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